Dont kill it...make it !

Every now n then I used to be strong in believing that we love. We just knew each other, but not so deep. But, as we started to know each other well, closer n closer, we came across a slightly or completely a different person. Well this is real s/he, and I m not so much acquainted with this new person.
This person has certain habits, ways of doing things which I may not like. I react...the other person also does the same...(so to say... defending one's own argument). When this comes in relationship it starts to take a different shape altogether because proving oneself better than the other isn't love, it's the game called "who's right!". And most of the time one thinks s/he is right and the other person is all wrong. It doesn't build up relationships it pushes away people from one's life.
U know what...life is too short to fight...spend it to love...n live...
Listen to their pain... complaints...n say yours too. But keep in mind you don't have to say all...right now...say the right thing at the right time.

...an evening in goa...

...Moon almost half ... statue of Jesus with hands stretched out...the hill in front ... Light house on it...giving hope to people ...not only in the sea but also to the ones who are sitting at the roof top (me)...cool breeze is blowing...
I'm here in goa 2500 kms away from my house. There are these ships in the sea...waiting for the dawn to move.
I'm missing you here. I am here.
Maybe you'll visit this place one day...you'll witness this surrounding...all what is here...and if possible then be here at this hour...or else in the evening when the sun sets...it's beautiful but except one thing... That I only hope to be with you here...but I actually am not...and imagine the pain one would feel if the one you miss...is fed up of your stupidity...
S/he is looking for a perfect person...I'm not...😢
One day when I am no more...when I'm desolve in this nature...when I'm free of all the fear ... You will look for me that day...I may not be found...I'll only be in your memories...depends...good or bad...or stupid.
This moon is no more beautiful for me...nothing is attractive here...tu khush ni h naa mujhse....kya karu...sab galat hi ho jata h mujhse. So it is justified when you say that I'm an idiot. You are right.
I am ... See ! Even now I'm busy thi king of you...I am smiling even now when i see your hand in mine in that pic...
How idiotic it is you see.
Sone ka waqt ho gya actually..

For you...

Loving and to be loved is the prime need of anyone. At the end of the day you realize everything else is wonderful except a true lover to be in life.
All have that desire to be with one such person...and to live together. People wander in search of this lovable one (may not literally be in search but wanting to have him/her there for them).

You have come in my life as natural, as loving as it could be but in an extraordinary way (unimaginable for me). I was the wanderer in this story. You became my stop. After all the mistakes that I've made you were there to forgive me (the real quality of a lover ).
Very look of yours is approachable honey... otherwise a person like me wouldn't have talked with u at all. What makes you to be this way is that you are easy to talk to, you smile. In this mature "you" there is this "baby you" who likes to keep life simple and yet attractive. This cuteness that bubbles out from you (n you can't help it) attracts people to you. You are a person worth loving to, FOREVER... Anybody will be happy to have you in his/her life (I am). 
You demand the 'right' things to be done and you stay strong, even though it may affect you deeply. I salute this quality of yours. Don't give up. I've learnt some serious things from you, (accepting my mistakes, foolishness is one of those). Nobody had loved 'me' as a person so much, you loved even a scar on my neck.
I don't know which number of time I'm mentioning it but it is a big thing for me.
You are the best that I have baby...never go away...I can't fill that gap ever...believe me. तू है तो मै हूँ।
This was my wish to be there today but I can't be honey...but we'll soon be there... together...again. I wish I become so sound one day that you think of me...and I am there. I promise I'll make it up to you baby...I am coming...
I love you bacche...

Words

...over the course of time I came to understand that you can only handle your emotions and feelings...not of others...
But you can always think and speak...wait a minute did I just say "think" ? Please correct ... Think twice thrice and if needed a hundred times...before you speak because your words have power either to build or to break. You may be in your light moments and just trying to either tease or pull the leg, out of fun.
But you have no clue how and what are they going through. What do they feel or understand when you say certain things.

People are more important than your words. Take care of them. Their happiness is more valuable than your words.
Let no word be the reason to break...instead make every word to build up the relationship. Let the life be good enough to enjoy.

They'll help you time and again...that means they care, they love...however strong it comes from them.
Take care...don't be in a rush to reach a conclusion. Love should be the prime priority in all what you do. Words will be full of compassion when the other person is the focus. Why? Coz you love them.
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Hope...that keeps it all going...

...just like a kite you let go ... Let it be free...sometimes when it may be in danger you pull it back ... But you let it explore...you let it be free...you help it also to be sharp enough to fight with those dangers...including the wind that may not have a genuine interest to let it fly...just another kite it is for that wind... but you need it always... coz you love it...at the end of the day you bring it back and keep it safe...
Hope...keeps it going...
You love...and your hope keeps it going...

Point of view about a particular thing

This picture depicts clearly how people can differ in their point of views from one another. Some of us stablish the fact so strongly that nothing else is true but just what they believe in. 

We may never come to understand if one of the two is ready to at least listen and still better if wanting to give it a thought without any judgement in it. 

It is always possible for anyone to give it a try in this regard. 

Happy Diwali !

Hello everyone !

A great meaningful festival is once again at the very threshold. One more day to go and I am sure we are all set to welcome and celebrate this festival, the festival of 'Light'. As we acclaim the festival of 'Light' let it be the same. I don't think we should change the very meaning of this celebration by contributing on an enormous level of Air and Sound pollution. After all how can we celebrate on the cost of others' irritation (when we go on cracking and blasting the crackers - sometimes continuously for 5 to 10 minutes)

Its a celebration of the Victory of Truth over Evil. Light represents the truth can never be hidden just like the light will be seen anywhere it is.

Light, not the pollution ! 

Have a great celebration, Bring the happiness into the lives of each other not the pain !