Every now n then I used to be strong in believing that we love. We just knew each other, but not so deep. But, as we started to know each other well, closer n closer, we came across a slightly or completely a different person. Well this is real s/he, and I m not so much acquainted with this new person.
This person has certain habits, ways of doing things which I may not like. I react...the other person also does the same...(so to say... defending one's own argument). When this comes in relationship it starts to take a different shape altogether because proving oneself better than the other isn't love, it's the game called "who's right!". And most of the time one thinks s/he is right and the other person is all wrong. It doesn't build up relationships it pushes away people from one's life.
U know what...life is too short to fight...spend it to love...n live...
Listen to their pain... complaints...n say yours too. But keep in mind you don't have to say all...right now...say the right thing at the right time.
This person has certain habits, ways of doing things which I may not like. I react...the other person also does the same...(so to say... defending one's own argument). When this comes in relationship it starts to take a different shape altogether because proving oneself better than the other isn't love, it's the game called "who's right!". And most of the time one thinks s/he is right and the other person is all wrong. It doesn't build up relationships it pushes away people from one's life.
U know what...life is too short to fight...spend it to love...n live...
Listen to their pain... complaints...n say yours too. But keep in mind you don't have to say all...right now...say the right thing at the right time.
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