I often hear people complaining from each other about keeping in touch...(especially about visiting or communicating through calls or texting etc.) Every time people hear these complaints, respond by saying "I'm sorry I was busy...", "My job sucks I'm always busy, I deal with clients so....", etc.
(I never quite understood why of it.)
Non of these responses convince the one who complaints. Why? Because one way or the other we all respond to someone like this.
Thus...we get this may not be true. It simply doesn't make any sense that someone doesn't get a few seconds to respond to your dear ones. This isn't genuine at all. (Exceptions are always possible...mind what I say... Exceptions, And exceptions don't happen everyday.)
So what is it then..? What makes people come up with such excuses?
Well...I thought about it and my hunch is that it's a matter of Priorities...that's it.
We prioritize the things or people who we value, who we are afraid of loosing.
We care and we support our relationship as n when needed. Everyone is wise enough to know when you may loose, and when to put a full stop, on what, and when to give up everything that is an obstacle and let the people experience that you CARE☺️
When our priorities shift ... We are vulnerable enough to loose some of our important things in life. We sometimes don't realize it till we actually loose them. It's too sad to see someone loosing something valuable.
We cry over a little things too if we loose them.
Heyy...if these are PEOPLE ...(especially those who care...)...Move your ass and get back to them...do whatever it takes...because people matter in our lives. .
Well, we may even prioritize the things that matter to them...their expectations...because we value them...we value all that they do...
That's how it is...why...? Because we love, n we want to be loved. When we love them...they're always the focus.
We live WITH THEM...we live FOR THEM
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