"Love " understood much better

Thinking of possessing one, isn't love. It's not just in controlling or in somehow getting, it's in giving it, sharing it...
More you suffer more it gives you courage to go on. No matter what happens to you, but you still focus on your loving partner.
Never regretting on what has happened but looking for what else can I do....
"The language of love doesn't speak of minimum obligations, but of max possibility"
I understand it better now...when I found the love of my life...
'Love of my life' because it can't be shared with anyone else...and also because she taught me to love no matter what she goes through, she loves me ...and it is expressed without her knowledge in simple simple ways...she doesn't even know when she does all that I need time and again. (Being angry but still fixing my salary account's problems😇, always thinking what's good for me to be happy whereas she sacrifices that liberty that she has).
I love her even MORE now ...now and forever.